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Walking Through the Book of Esther: Chapter 5 Part 2

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So in last post about Haman we talked about how we can sabotage ourselves and how to overcome it.  If you have not read it you can do so here.

Today however we are going to talk about how to be more empowered and how you can step into your role as the Queen of your Life today.

We will start with the first verse in Chapter 5.

“Now it happened on the third day that Esther put on her royal robes and stood in the inner court of the king’s palace, across from the king’s house, while the king sat on his royal throne in the royal house, facing the entrance of the house.  So it was, when the king saw Queen Esther standing in the court, which she found favor in his sight, and the king held out to Esther the golden scepter.  And the king said to her, “what do you wish, Queen Esther?  What is your request?  It shall be given to you; up to half the kingdom!”  So Esther answered, “If it pleases the king, let the king and Haman come today to the banquet that I have prepared for him.”  Then the king said, “Bring Haman quickly, that he may do as Esther has said.”  So the king and Haman went to the banquet that Esther had prepared.

Now let’s go back to the first line….On the third day that Esther put on her ROYAL ROBES and stood in the inner court of the king’s palace.  Did you catch that?  She put on her ROYAL ROBES.  She was dressed for the part.  Esther showed strength in her willingness to appear before the king without being summoned by him.  This took a whole lot of courage because of what he did with his last wife.   However by showing up in her royal robes she was showing the king who was and what she meant to the King.  She went in with a plan and the clothes made her the “Man”.

Another thing I love about the about the book of Esther is it leaves with such a clear picture of what is going on in a just one short line of the chapter.  With stating that she was wearing her Royal Robes is telling us she was a Bad A$$ Queen and knew how to get what she wanted.

Which brings me to the topic of this post.


You were made for so much more and when you are dressing the part you are telling GOD and the rest of the world you mean business.  You are a Queen who gets what she wants.

Why would you want to dress the part if you really don’t feel like it?

I know some days it is so much easier to throw on a pair of yoga pants and put your hair in a ponytail.

You can go to work without make-up because really who cares.  No one is going to be looking at you anyway.

And you know what you are right….NO ONE IS LOOKING At YOU!!

I know this is really hard for us women to understand.   Men are visual creatures.  Yes I know it sucks and they should only be interested in our minds and our personalities but that is not the Way God wired them.  So as a women we can either push against it or we can embrace it and accept that we need to be dressing in our ROYAL ROBES every day to attract the man we want.

If you want a little bit more here are 10 Reasons why should dress as Queen every day:.

1o.  When you dress up it will totally boost mood.

Huge shocker when you look good does it help you feel better on the inside.  It is fact when you wear high heels it makes you stand straighter which makes you look 10 lbs less.

9.  Putting your best foot forward

and taking the time to look good, men take notice they see the beautiful outside but also on a deeper level he will be attracted to the women you are in the inside.

8.  You want to look good when you run into a man who could be the ONE…

What do you want to be wearing when you meet him?

7.  Really we are on this earth for a short period of time

….Life is too short to wear crappy clothes.


will help you stand taller and feel more confident.


Now when I say put on ROYAL ROBES…I mean you can wear your personality on the outside.  Wear something that makes you feel powerful, beautiful, and sexy.  Let it all out!!

4.Go for the quick Pick-Me-Up

add some lip gloss.  Really boost your mood.

3. Show off how Awesome You really are.

Everyone wants to know who really are show it off!!

2.  Theme song.

When you look and feel good, it helps to get your theme song going in your mind.

  1. YOUR ARE FABULOUS!  You need to show the world and work it!!!


As you can see really it comes down to looking good help you feel good.  You really can’t be in a bad mood when a really cute outfit that you know you look good in.

What is your favorite outfit that makes you feel awesome?  Let me know in the comments I would love to hear from you.




What is your favorite outfit that makes you feel awesome?  Let me know in the comments I would love to hear from you.


Remember you are the daughter of the most high God



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