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5 Tips On How To Be The Most Confident Woman In The Room

Queen Esther.

The most confident woman in the room.

The woman who saves the entire race of the Jewish People.

We can learn a lot from Queen Esther about being a Queen with a Vision. A Queen who had the courage and the confidence to full fill what was deep in her soul. She couldn’t say no to saving her people because it was something that God placed on her heart to fulfill.

In Chapter 5

On the third day of the fast, Esther put on her royal robes and entered the inner court of the palace, just across from the king’s hall. The king was sitting on his royal throne, facing the entrance.

Did you catch that?

Esther put on her Royal Robes.


Do have any idea how infect this was to Esther and to you?

When she entered the inner Court Yard of the Palace she entered as the QUEEN.

And you can too.

You can enter your life as the Queen God created you to be.,

I know that you feel fear and unworthiness.

I know that you think that you are not good enough to be a Queen but these are lies from the Evil One. You can and you must become the Queen you were created to be.

And really you can.

Secret #1

Be Yourself

The first step is really one that you have heard all your life from your mother….

“Be yourself and everyone will like you.”

This little bit advice your mother gave after you were not invited to the birthday party everyone else was going to is so right.

But really be honest have you sat and thought “how do I be myself’? How do I be authentic?

I am I the only one?

Here is the thing you already know who you are… You already know what you were made for and you need to just step into who you are.

When you just show up and let the message of who you really are will flow through you and you don’t have to do anything.

Please don’t ever try to change who you are in order to impress someone else. This never works and will not get you the confidence you want.

No matter what your goals and dreams are in life, they need to come from your soul. They need to come from a place of truth.

No matter what your goals and dreams are in life, they need to come from your soul. They need to come from a place of truth. Click To Tweet

No matter what type of business you want and no matter who the is King you decide to marry there will be up and downs in your life. You will go through hard times.  You must be your true self to be able to walk through the valleys and come to the mountaintop.  You have to have a strong foundation of who you really are.

And if you have been struggling with finding who you really are. It is time to start journaling on what you really want out of life. Ask yourself the hard questions.  Ask yourself if you were truly in alignment with who God created you to be then what would you be doing?

Secret #2

There are no limits to anything.

Yes, that is right in order to believe in yourself and have full confidence in yourself you must believe that you can you do anything. And that anything really is possible. How do you think Queen Esther felt when she walks in uninvited to see the King, she had to walk in there knowing that God with was and that nothing impossible with God.

I really don’t think the saying be fearless, because yes you can still have fear when you are confident in the limitless possibilities.

Secret #3

Be Positive

Like all the time. There is never a time to be a Debbie Downer. Really I am telling you being positive is the foundation of your confidence. Even if someone cuts you off the freeway. Just brush it off and tell yourself they are in a bigger hurry than you.

When you know that God controls then it is way easier to let the little things roll off you. Start your day and end your day being positive.

When you start the day with the intention of fixing your mind on whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. Philippians 4:8

Secret #4

Compliment Others

Take time out of your day to compliment others around you. Like someone’s shoes… like their hair, their smile, tell them.  This not only makes the other person feel awesome but you will pretty good too.  And this shows you and others around you that you are the strong confident Queen to be able to give compliments to others.

“Do whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this the Law and the Prophets: Matthew 7:12

Secret #5

Say YES to everything

Ok so maybe not everything but saying yes way more than no will boost your confidence.  Saying Yes to do new things every day.  We all get in ruts. We love to do the same things over and over. And let’s face it trying new things in your life can be scary.  But when you start doing a new thing and start saying yes way more than no you will start rise into your Queenhood.  Stepping up to the strong confident woman you are.

Secret #6

There is no Competition only Creativity.

Ok so really confidence comes from within. It comes from your soul. God created you to be unique and no one in the whole world is like you. So really there is no need for Competition.  We are all on this rock flying through space together so we need each other. We need to help one another to build one another up.

When you are being creative and creating from the soul then there is no need to compete. You can just be you.

Secret #7

Ask For Help

Ok, so I know you bought this book hoping to know all the answers and learn how to get your shit together. You are thinking about all the bad things you have done.  And you probably think that all the Queens are confident and have all the answers but really she doesn’t. And that is totally Ok. You don’t have to know everything.  Knowing who you are and where your limitations and asking question personality.  When you ask for help you show others how humble you are and always on the path to self-improvement.

So there you have it You are now ready to step into any room as the most strong confident woman.

You can walk in self-confidence all the time just embrace it.

Remember You are the Daughter of the Most High God



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