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The 5 Secrets of Courage, in Order to Become Successful


“….I will go in to see the king. If I must die, I must die.” ~ Esther 4:16


When seeing women like Joyce Myers, Reese Witherspoon, and Oprah who have achieved success, what we see is the ultimate highlighted reel.  We don’t see their struggle, we don’t see how much courage it took and still takes to do all the accomplishments they do.

“Have the courage to be different. Unhappiness comes when you try to be like everyone else rather than embracing the unique person that you are.” ~Joyce Meyer

In order to get what you want out of life, you must first step into your Queen with courage.

You will never be fearless but you can be courageous.

It is the crucial secret to achieve your dreams.

So are ready to be let in on our a little secret?

Of course, you are, you are ready to step into your Queenhood.

Let’s take that step…


In chapter 2 of the book of Esther, we learn that Esther is an orphan living in her uncles home when she goes to the Palaces. She told no one of what her nationality and family background, however, she was still herself, she was still charming and kind to all of those around her.

How can we tell?

We know this because in chapter 2 verse 8-9 and in verse 15 it says she gained favor with all who knew her.

So how can you gain favor with all who know you?


Yes, that is the only way.

God create just one YOU.

Embrace it.

Those around you may not want to all of you but they do want to know the real you.

They don’t want someone who is fake.

Do you want to be the type of woman who is not trapped in living in the wrong life?

Esther may have been an orphan but God knew that was not to be her life.

And she knew it too.

Some theologians say there could have been up to 400 women taken to the King.

So she knew it too.

She knew deep down that she was destined for greatness.

When you are true, truly walking in who you really are…

Not being fake

Not trying to be someone your not

When you are walking in true alignment with who you are,

Then you can walk in alignment with your soul.

And then just like that, everything clicks into place.

You just know who you really are.

When you are aligned with who you really are, then every single decision you make has a clear answer.

“Should I order the beef or chicken?”

“Should I wear white after Labor Day”?

“Do I work out or eat a donut?”

“Do I stay in this relationship or do I leave?”

“Do I write today or go for a walk to get ideas?”

There is no right or wrong answer here … these are decisions that we all make every day and how we answer them honestly with who we really are and where we want to go is bring us into alignment with our soul.

You can start just making the right decision quickly and others around you will notice and they will notice that you are being your real self and they will find favor in you.

There is no decision in business or in life, big or small, which your soul doesn’t already know the answer to.

In order to be truly yourself and allow yourself to find favor in others eyes and God’s eyes is to listen to your soul because your soul knows the way.



Lying on death bed moments away from taking your last breath what are your last thoughts?

Are they thoughts of love and spending time with family?

Are they thoughts of no regrets?

Are they thoughts of having done everything that you have wanted in life?

Do you that doubt is the number 1 killer of dreams.

And most people are too afraid to go after their dreams.

“Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you.” Deuteronomy 31:6

Fear is the number one reason why most people don’t go after their dreams.

It is scary and most people don’t have the courage to face their fears.

This is a choice.

Even if you are not aware of it, it is chosen to live in the fear.

You have big plans and big dreams of how you want your life to be.

However, the act of actually starting to go after your dreams can be overwhelming and so you just shut down.

However, when you step out in faith and take that step to actually start going after dreams, you will notice that you will start going down the right path to success. Without faith and courage, you will never be able to achieve your dreams.


The third secret is you have to have the courage to push pass all the blocks you have that are keeping you from achieving your dreams.

When seeing all the big obstacles that we have in the way in order to get our dreams we back down. We shut down and don’t push through.

There are thousands and thousands of strongholds and one of them is holding you back from achieving your dreams.

You have to have the courage to sit down and face them. You have to have the courage to take them up by the root inside of you and get rid of it.

Because there will be obstacles and there will be failures in your life.

But when you push through the hurt and the pain you have the courage to move forward.

And the more you push pass your strongholds the easier it becomes to jump over the obstacles.

“Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong.” 1 Corinthians 16:13



Ok so you have successfully pushed pass the strongholds and you are now moving toward your goals.  Now it should easy.

“only miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” ~Wayne Gretzky

The secret to having the courage to take the shot is crucial to your journey.  Because yes if you don’t take the shot then your dreams are over.

I know it is scary but when you think about it most people stay in their own little world and don’t want to venture out believing that everything will go wrong.

The women who know that they were created for more knows that stepping out and taking the shot is the risk successful people take.

It will pay off

It will come to pass.

You just need to get out of your way.

You have to own it.

Visualize yourself taking the shot and scoring the winning point!

Yes, you did it!

Because you are successful and you are the Queen of Your own Life and you came here to step up,

This is just how it works…

Every day you wake up and have the same amount of time Beyoncé and see what you will see is what she has done with all that time, the same amount of minutes you have.

Every day in some way you have to Choice to be the person who you know you’re meant to be.

“For God has not given us the spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-disciple. ~ 1 Timothy 1:7


Ok so the last secret you must know in order to become a success is that you have to be praying without ceasing. You have to be walking in faith and truly believing that you can have the best of everything.  You do believe this in your heart.

You must walk in faith in things yet to come.

You will fail and you will fall down but this is normal and you can overcome it.

Because my beautiful Queen you are 100%  that know something amazing is going to happen and it is going to help you be successful.

Remember you are the daughter of the most High GOD.



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