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How To Set Goals That Truly Matter To You


How do you actually make your Goals and dreams come to life?

You know you need to set goals… You have to have a target of where you want to go.

You need to set goals that will set your soul ablaze. That you will wake up each and every morning excited to get up and achieve them.

I know you want to live a life where you are excited to get up in the morning.

If you are anything like me you are used to setting your goals, going after goals, you are staying up late and getting up early each and every day to achieve those your goals. You keep going after your goals and working hard and hard…

But let me ask you, looking back over the past year, the month and even yesterday are you truly positive that these goals matter to you and are you completing those goals?

If the answer is yes then my hat off to you. Here is your high five and you can now stop reading because you really don’t need any of this.

But if not…  do you know why or how to even set goals that you are going to actually follow through on?

When Queen Esther walked in the Royal Court Yard to face the King…

She stepped in with her Royal Robes on.  She entered the inner courtyard as the Queen.

And that is what you need to do when you are setting your goals for the New Year…

You need to be stepping into the New Year as the Queen of Your Life.

Stepping into the New Year with confidence that you will achieve everything your heart desires.

In order to do this, you need to set goals that matter.

Matter to you and your soul.

You see the thing is that we are taught from a very young age about what we should think is important.

We are taught to believe that having fame, money, the perfect body, the husband, house, and even having children is the best life and is going to bring happiness to your life.

OK so there are many things wrong with this on so many levels but really the one thing that you need to know is that you MUST, you MUST set goals that matter to you.

You have to set goals that align with your soul.

You have values, you have your own beliefs that are aligned with your soul and if you don’t set goals that align with your values and beliefs then you will not achieve your goals.

You just won’t.

This is why so many famous sarts still have a hard time in life. They will hit it big but then turn to drugs and alcohol and spending all their money. They will sabotage themselves.

You will find that you keep making excess and not following through with the thing that you need to do to achieve your goals.

You will sabotage yourself.

So what do you need to do in order to move forward and become the Queen God created you to be…

Go Wild…

In order to really achieve your goals to make a list of everything that you want to do, everything that you want to have, and everything you want to be in the next year….

Go wild, let your imagination wander and really think about where you want to be in the next year. Don’t worry about what does your soul really want.  Just go wild and write down everything that comes to mind.


Looking Back Over Your Life…

OK so now I want you to think 30 years into the future…

What do you need to do, what do need to have, and who do you want to be.

Who do want to be in order to look back and say…

“Wow, I really lived the best life. I lived the life that God created me to live.”

What does that look like?

How do you want to feel?

Where do you want to be living?

How are your relationships with your family and friends?

Write all of this down…



My mother was an English teacher and she said no matter how old the student was they always complained: “You mean I have to write it again?”

Yes, I now want you to re-write your goals.

Write them out from your soul.

This is where you need to get out of your own way and let soul take over. Go deep with what you really want out of life. Do your first list of goals line up with where you want to be in 30 years?

They may wildly different or they may similar?

Either way, you can see where your goals are in aligned with your true self.

The reality of why so many people never achieve their goals is because their goals are not truly in alignment with who they really are.  Their goals are not aligned with what they truly value.  And this is why in the past you have put off goals, you have gotten sidetracked and sabotaged yourself.  It is not because you are lazy it is because you were not in true alignment with who you really are.

So next time you start to feel out of alignment, or you feel stressed and you just want to shut down and binge watch Netflix.


Now that you what your true goals are, and you know where you want to be in 30 years then it is time to set daily, weekly and monthly goals that are in alignment with your soul.  Write you to list by listing to your soul and not by what you think you should be doing.  When you take successful fruitful action every day then you will start to see results.  You can’t help but see results.  When you are moving in a place from alignment.

I promise you when to start living your life based on your values and what is truly important to you, you will not face challenges or have setbacks.  So please give yourself permission to not to do the things that really don’t matter.  If you keep moving forward you will get to the end goal.

Set goals that matter, set goals that will get you to the life you want to look back on in 30 years and say…

“Yes, I lived the life I truly wanted.”

You make the life you want now.  Start now, because after all –

You are the daughter of the Most High God



If you would like to get started today you can download this free printable and get a jump start on your New Year’s goals.

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